Mindfulness is gathering speed. Your child’s school may have offered some sessions; maybe you have bought one of the many mindful colouring books that encourage your child to focus and enjoy the moment of creativity.

If mindfulness has or has not entered your life, how can you support your child to understand what it is and what it can offer them? Here are some ideas and tips to support you and your child to develop a deeper understanding of mindfulness meditation.

How to explain Mindfulness to younger children

Mindfulness is simply… noticing what is happening right now, in this moment and paying attention to it. Mindfulness is becoming aware of your senses and of how your body feels, moves; what you see, hear, touch, smell and taste. Maybe you even feel emotions in your body, perhaps through a tightness somewhere, or a good sensation.

Mindfulness is also noticing what your mind is doing, your thoughts as they arrive and developing your awareness that you are thinking and that its ok.

So what happens when you start noticing these things?

When you begin to notice what is happening around you, you focus more deeply, and you begin to strengthen your concentration. It simply is developing your ability to pay attention. Often we think we are soing this and we ask children to ‘pay attention!’ but do they really grasp what this means?

Using our senses is an immediate way to allow childlren to understand what paying attention is. ‘notice the colours, notice a scent, notice how something feels…’ Tell them to really pay attention to their place in the world by paying attention to their senses.

Ask them to describe the sensations in their fingertips, the solidness of the ground beneath their feet, the taste, feel and sensation of every single bite of food they take. Improved focus can help you do well in all areas of life too. To achieve higher levels in sports, school or music.

and also….

It can help you to calm down when you’re sad, angry or frustrated. it can help you to find more clarity when you deal with tough emotions, and mindfulness can help make connections to support you to feel happy and feel good.

How to explain Mindfulness to Teens

When talking with older children, you could simply expand on the previous explanation and say that mindfulness is a basic life skill that can benefit us in many ways.

A popular way to put it is to say: mindfulness is about paying attention in a particular way – on purpose, in the present moment and without judgment.

The non-judgment part means that we simply have an experience without contemplating if the experience is good or bad. By doing this, we develop more self-awareness, emotional balance, and impulse control. It’s about recognising our inner and outer experiences and understanding how they affect our well being.

How does mindfulness work?

We tend to react rather than respond.  For example, when someone says something we don’t like to hear, we react. Sometimes we say something that we would like to take back the moment after we blurt it out.

Mindfulness helps us create space between a strong emotion and our actions and develop time to form a response. Thus we can learn to deal with positive and negative experiences more calmly and by making better decisions.

When we pay attention to our thoughts and feelings, we can respond in a more clever way, without hurting our own feelings or the feelings of others.

“Between stimulus and response, there is a space. In that space lies our freedom and power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and freedom” – Victor Frankl

As we create more emotional balance, we are less easily knocked down by our emotions, but in moments when we are knocked down, we bounce back faster.

This video helps to explain mindfulness and how the brain works. Children find the science behind learning mindfulness fascinating and it helps to put it into a real life context.


What is the goal of Mindfulness?

Mindfulness helps us sustain our awareness more often and for longer periods. We can begin to practice mindfulness by adding many brief moments of awareness into our lives on a daily basis.

This awareness comes with lots of benefits.

Here are some of the good things mindfulness can bring to your life:

  • Mindfulness helps us create space between the emotions we have and the actions we use to respond to them.
  • Mindfulness helps us focus.
  • Mindfulness can make us feel better emotionally and physically.

What are the benefits of mindfulness?

  • decreased stress and anxiety,
  • improved health,
  • better sleep,
  • improved focus and awareness,
  • better problem solving,
  • improved impulse control,
  • increased compassion and kindness,
  • stronger relationships,
  • and even higher life satisfaction.

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